Sue Scheff: College Visit Checklist for Summer Trips
by Sue Scheff on Mar 21, 2010
It is that time of the year when high school juniors will be planning their colleges of choice. For parents, they need to be involved too since this will be a big decision both financially and what is best for your teen.
Schoolwork, your job, your parents… choosing the right time to go on campus visits may seem like a complicated procedure. But when you’re planning your trip, just be sure not to lose sight of the reason you’re going: to see if the school is a good fit for you. This means you need to see the college when classes are meeting and day-to-day activities are taking place. In other words, go when the college is in session. – College Board
Here is great checklist to start with:
- Take a campus tour.
- Have an interview with an admissions officer.
- Get business cards and names of people you meet for future contacts.
- Pick up financial aid forms.
- Participate in a group information session at the admissions office.
- Sit in on a class of a subject that interests you.
- Talk to a professor in your chosen major or in a subject that interests you.
- Talk to coaches of sports in which you might participate.
- Talk to a student or counselor in the career center.
- Spend the night in a dorm.
- Read the student newspaper.
- Try to find other student publications—department newsletters, alternative newspapers, literary reviews.
- Scan bulletin boards to see what day-to-day student life is like.
- Eat in the cafeteria.
- Ask students why they chose the college.
- Wander around the campus by yourself.
- Read for a little while in the library and see what it’s like.
- Search for your favorite book in the library.
- Ask students what they hate about the college.
- Ask students what they love about the college.
- Browse in the college bookstore.
- Walk or drive around the community surrounding the campus.
- Ask students what they do on weekends.
- Listen to the college’s radio station.
- Try to see a dorm that you didn’t see on the tour.
- Imagine yourself attending this college for four years.
Source: College Board
With today’s expanding cyber-world, don’t forget to check to see if your college of choice has a Facebook page. Talk with current students and follow their events! Check out to see if they have a Twitter feed too.
Are you looking for community college? Florida Department of Education offers a list of community colleges for you to. To reseach other Florida Colleges, both state and private, visit www.collegeboard.com.
The more you know about the college you are choosing, the better prepared you can be.
Tags: College Board, College Tips, College Trips, College Visits, Parenting, Parenting Teens, Parents Universal Resource Experts, Sue Scheff, Teen Help
Sue Scheff: Planned Parenthood – Teen Time
by Sue Scheff on Mar 20, 2010
On Thursday March 25th, 2010, at 6:00pm – 8:00 pm join the discussion of Planned Parenthood’s legislative priorities, how to deal with anti-choice attacks, and how you can help advance women’s reproductive health care rights. There are several briefings coming up, so you can attend one that best fits your schedule.
This is a free event. A light dinner will be served, and your RSVP is kindly requested. For more information or to RSVP, please contact Takeata King Pang at Takeata.Pang@ppsoflo.org or (561) 472-9942.
Promoting education on teen pregnancy enhances your daughter’s awareness about STD’s, pregnancy prevention, birth control options including abstinence as well as the sensitive issue of adoption.
Planned Parenthood of South Florida also offers The Teen Time® Carrera Adolescent Pregnancy Prevention Program (Teen Time®) which uses a holistic approach that aims to empower youth. The program helps young people to develop personal goals and the desire for a productive future.
In addition to developing sexual literacy and educating teens about the risks associated with sexual activity, the program also emphasizes the importance of education and employment. Youths start the program at age 11 or 12 and continue past high school. They work with them five days a week, after school, and throughout the summer. There are sites in Belle Glade, Lake Worth, West Palm Beach, and Fort Pierce, in areas with high rates of teen pregnancy and low high school graduation rates.
Find out more about Teen Time – click here.
Be an educated parent, you will have safer and healthier teens. Watch video and read more.
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Sue Scheff: New Study Shows Boys Struggle in School – Could it be their attention span?
by Sue Scheff on Mar 19, 2010
Source: Connect with Kids
Boys Hate School
“Some of my teachers, they just get up there, they lecture, they write notes on the board for an hour and a half and that’ll be the class period and you can’t keep your attention very long.”
– Kevin, 16 years old
If education is the key to a child’s future, our boys may be in trouble. A new study from the University of Alaska shows that boys can’t read or write as well as girls and are far more likely to hate school and then drop out. Many experts wonder if the problem isn’t what boys hear all day long at school: to sit still, be quiet, and listen.
When 16 year old Will studies… it’s often at the last second. And his friend Kevin, 16, says his report card has more C’s and B’s than A’s.
Kevin admits, “I try and get through with the least amount possible. I honestly don’t want to work very hard. I just want to get through school, go to college, finish that off, get a job.”
In fact, new research shows that twice as many 12th grade girls are “proficient” at writing compared to boys and 41 percent of girls are “proficient” readers, compared to only 29% of boys.
Educational Psychologist Donna Wood McCarty, Ph.D., says, “To tell you the truth, I am deeply concerned about our boys in this country.”
Could the problem be the way classes are taught?
Experts suggest that many boys simply can’t sit for an hour or more while listening to a lecture… at least not as well as girls.
Will agrees. “Well, my last two periods are always the long lecturing teachers kinds of periods so I usually fall asleep.”
Dr. McCarty says, “I think that teachers should really attend to the fact that boys probably learn better in more actively learning situations and where they’re able to move around… do something… or where there’s some sort of visual-spatial component.”
Research is on-going about the different learning styles of boys and girls; in the meantime, experts say, parents can appeal to their school to appreciate the value of an active and energetic boy. “We’ve got to find ways in the school systems to help celebrate what boys bring to a classroom, and the energy and excitement they bring and the challenges they bring and help teachers learn to embrace that,” Dr. McCarty says.
She also she says – appeal to your son’s competitive spirit. Explain that right now school is the most important challenge in their life. “‘You as my son are going to have to recognize that your future depends on you being able to cope with this environment and deal with it as best you can.’ And I think if you throw down that gauntlet to your boy that might be an approach that might be meaningful.”
Related Information
What can parents do to help their sons perform better academically? Experts at the University of Illinois Extension say parents can do a great deal at home to enhance learning. First, it is important for parents to understand their son’s learning style – the way he processes information. Most children show a preference for one of the following three basic learning styles:
- Visual learners absorb information by watching. They call up images from the past when trying to remember. They picture the way items look in their heads. Forty percent of students fall into this category.
- Auditory learners tend to spell phonetically. They can sometimes have trouble reading because they don’t visualize well. These students learn by listening and remember facts when they are presented in the form of a poem, song or melody.
- Kinesthetic learners are taught best through movement and manipulation. They like to find out how items work and are often successful in the practical arts, such as carpentry or design. These students make up 50 percent of secondary students and have difficulty learning in a traditional setting.
How can you determine your child’s learning style? Here’s a simple way that might help. Ask him what comes to mind when he hears the word “dog.” Some people see a picture of the animal, others hear a bark and others feel the soft fur of the animal. Those who see a picture of a dog in their mind’s eye or see the letters are probably visual. Those who hear the bark are probably auditory learners. Those who feel the soft fur of a dog are probably kinesthetic. If your son is not performing well in school, you may want to explore the way information is being presented in class and approach the subject with your child at home using a different learning style. It is also a good idea to discuss this with your child’s teacher.
Tips for Parents
Helping students who are having trouble in school is something parents and teachers can do by working together. Experts say that when your son is experiencing academic difficulties, parents and teachers can assist by trying one or more of the following approaches:
- Make time to listen to your child’s fears or concerns and try to understand him.
- Set appropriate boundaries for behavior that are consistently enforced.
- Emphasize the importance of study skills and hard work, and follow through at home and in school.
- Arrange tutoring or study group support for your son at school or through community organizations, such as the YMCA.
- Provide a supportive home and school environment in which education is clearly valued.
- Become more involved in school activities by attending sporting events, concerts, science fairs, plays, etc., to show support for the school.
- Meet as a team with the student and a school counselor to share expectations for your son’s future and to figure out how to support his learning environment.
- As your son gets older, help him think about career options by arranging for visits to local companies and colleges.
References
- Family Education Network
- ERIC Clearinghouse
- University of Illinois Extension
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Sue Scheff: Homeless Teens
by Sue Scheff on Mar 17, 2010
We know about homeless people and the challenges they face. Many homeless people suffer from a mental illness, some have lost their jobs and homes.
However hearing about homeless youths can be disturbing. After all, these are truly children that have had to grow up fast. No matter what the circumstances are, whether they were in an abusive home, are addicts, or their parents simply don’t want them; being homeless is a place where no one wants to be or even talk about.
In South Florida, the Covenant House offers relief for homeless teens. Covenant House Florida serves runaway, homeless, and at-risk youth under 21 including teen parents and their babies.
Each year, we reach hundreds of kids in Fort Lauderdale and Orlando via street outreach, crisis shelters, transitional housing projects, and aftercare, making Covenant House Florida one of the largest private agencies serving runaway and homeless youth in the state of Florida.
Services offered:
- Street Outreach by van and foot
- Shelter Care — nourishing meals, clean clothes, and a safe place to sleep: current capacity Ft Lauderdale 68 Youths / Orlando 20 Youths (both locations accessible to young mothers and their babies)
- Counseling, Case Management, and Referrals
- Health Services at on-site clinics
- Family Reunification
- Substance Abuse Intervention
- Pregnancy Prevention/Teen Parent Education
- Education
- Job Readiness
- Life Skills Instruction
- Transportation Assistance
- Pastoral Ministry
- Rights of Passage Transitional Housing
- Aftercare/Walk-In Services
To contact the Covenant House for more information, call toll free at 1-800-683-8338.
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Sue Scheff: Animal Assisted Therapy for Teens and Elders
by Sue Scheff on Mar 15, 2010
Does your teenager (18 years old and up) have a passion for their pet? Do they enjoy helping others? If so, The Humane Society of Broward County offers a rewarding program. Animal Assisted Therapy Programs (AAT) is a rewarding experience for your teen and their companion animal.
First you will need to attend the Humane Society of Broward County’s Volunteer Orientation. Volunteer Orientation is scheduled through their Volunteer Services Department at 954-266-6814.
The Animal Assisted Therapy Program (AAT) is not only for young adults; parents and people of all ages can help make a difference in many lives. If your teen is seeking a career in psychology, social work or veterinarian, this could be an excellent introduction. For adults, it is a great way to meet others that share your love of animals and helping others.
Once you have completed the Volunteer Orientation, you will be required to attend a 2 ½ hour AAT class without your animal. This class will teach you all about our Animal Assisted Therapy Program and what skill requirements both you and your animal must possess in order to be considered for our program.
After the AAT course is completed, you and your animal might require further training. Training is determined by the type of program you and your animal will be participating in, and what skill sets you and your animal have or need to have in order to participate. AAT Advanced Obedience Training classes are held at the Humane Society and are scheduled once a week for 6 weeks. The Manager of the AAT program will decide if you and your animal require further training before being evaluated for the program. – Humane Society of Broward County
If you are interested in joining AAT program, please contact the Humane Society directly at 954-266-6856 or email them at therapy@hsbroward.com .
Not in Broward County? To find the nearest Humane Society near you, click here.
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Sue Scheff: Summer Camps – What are your teen’s interests?
by Sue Scheff on Mar 14, 2010
There may be a chill in South Florida and around the country, however summer camp time is coming fast! If you will be sending your child or teen to camp, the time is now to start researching your options.
- Are you looking for a sleep away camp?
- Are you looking for day camps?
- Are you looking for teen travel camps?
- Are you looking for specific camps that meet your child’s interests such as tennis, golf, skateboarding, fine arts, music, horse back riding, etc.?
- Does your child have special needs and requirements?
- Are you looking for an academic summer program?
There are many options to consider in choosing what is best for your individual child.
You may want to start with the assistance of Camp Finders. Located in Delray Beach, Florida, Rick Mades for over fifteen years, has been helping parents find the best summer programs and camps for their children and teens. He has visited over a hundred sleep away camps throughout our country as well as in Canada, Europe, Australia, Central America, the Caribbean & Virgin Islands, Israel & more. The best part, this is a free service!
If you are considering a summer experience for your child or teen, the time is now to start doing your homework.
Be an educated parent, you will be better prepared which will give you safer and happier teens and children.
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Sue Scheff: Don’t Let Your Luck Run Out on St. Patrick’s Day
by Sue Scheff on Mar 13, 2010
“I’m fine to drive.”
Expect to hear this line a lot on March 17th, St. Patrick’s Day. Known as much for drinking as it is for shamrocks and the color green, this holiday is a fun time to be out with friends, but can be a dangerous time to be out on the road. Too many people are under the misconception that you need to be “falling down drunk” to be too impaired to drive safely. They couldn’t be more wrong.
Nearly 12,000 people were killed in crashes involving an alcohol-impaired driver in 2008. That’s about one person every 45 minutes. You can’t help but wonder if those lives might have been saved if only people had thought twice before getting behind the wheel.
The National Highway Traffic Safety Administration (NHTSA) and the Ad Council are continuing to work together on the “Buzzed Driving is Drunk Driving” PSA campaign. Buzzed drivers drink and drive, but do not consider themselves a hazard on the roadway because they have had “only a few drinks.” BuzzedDriving hopes to educate people on the reality that consuming even a few drinks can impair driving and that “Buzzed Driving is Drunk Driving.”
With St. Patrick’s Day approaching, it’s important that drivers be reminded about the dangers of buzzed driving. We need your help.
Get the word out that before going out after work to celebrate St. Patrick’s Day, you should be sure to line up alternative transportation: have the number for a taxi, know the area public transportation system or designate a sober driver.
Follow BuzzedDriving on Twitter (@buzzeddriving) and Facebook to get the latest updates and news from NHTSA. You can also visit their campaign Web site to sign a pledge not to drive buzzed, play an interactive game demonstrating how drinking can impair driving and hear a personal story from someone who has been affected by buzzed driving.
Enjoy St. Patrick’s Day and remember safety always comes first!
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Tags: Buzzed Driving, Driving Drunk, Drunk Driving, Parenting Resources, Parenting Teens, Parents Universal Resource Experts, Sue Scheff, Teen Health, Teen Issues
Sue Scheff: Myth vs Fact: The truth about reform in Florida’s education system for teachers
by Sue Scheff on Mar 11, 2010
Myth vs. Fact: The Truth about Reform – This is interesting information about Florida’s system of our on of our most valued people; teachers. Teachers are who we trust with our children for many hours a day - five days a week. Teachers are the people that help us mold our children and prepare them for a bright future. There has been conflicting information about teachers and their salaries with consideration to what our children are learning.
Source: Foundation for Florida’s Future
Modernizing Teacher Evaluations, Tenure and Compensation for the 21st Century
Myth: The current process for evaluating teachers is fine the way it is.
- Fact: Last year, 99.7% of teachers in the state earned a “satisfactory” evaluation, yet 50% of our high school students, 35% of our middle school students and 30% of our elementary students didn’t make a year’s worth of progress in reading. (And 60%, 40% and 30%, respectively, were not reading on grade level.) That’s fine?
Myth: The bill will eliminate tenure in Florida.
- Fact: The bill doesn’t eliminate tenure for teachers in the classroom today. The courts have determined that tenure is a property right and can’t be taken away by the Legislature. The bill does end the practice of granting lifetime guarantee of employment after just three years in the classroom. Instead, new teachers will have annual performance contracts.
Myth: Annual tests are not a good measure of teacher effectiveness.
- Fact: Annual tests are an objective measure of the knowledge and skills students gain from one year to the next. If you believe teachers impact how much a student learns, then annual tests that measure progress are an objective measure of their effectiveness in the classroom.
Myth: It’s unfair to base teacher evaluations on student learning.
- Fact: Right now, teacher performance reviews are based on the observations and opinions of their principal – making these evaluations 100% subjective. Using data for 50% of the annual performance review makes the evaluation more objective – and therefore, more fair.
Myth: The bill punishes teachers whose students are below grade level.
- Fact: The bill doesn’t punish teachers whose students are not on grade level. The bill requires progress – what students learn during the year – to be considered. Teachers can’t control what their students know when they show up on the first day of school, but they do influence what they learn during the year in their class. In fact, measuring progress may benefit teachers who teach students with disabilities and low-performing students the most.
Myth: The bill cuts teacher pay.
- Fact: Under the bill, the more students learn, the more teachers earn. The bill requires at least half of teacher salaries to be based on whether students are learning. It also raises salaries for teachers in high-poverty schools and teachers of subjects that are in high demand, such as math and science.
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Tags: Education, Foundation of Florida Education, Parenting, Parents Universal Resource Experts, Students, Sue Scheff, Teachers
Sue Scheff: Increasing Your Teens Study Skills
by Sue Scheff on Mar 10, 2010
Motivating students today can be a challenge. Many children are very bright, intelligent and have the ability to get excellent grades, however are underachievers. This can be extremely frustrating to parents as well as teachers.
PS Youth Outreach Center located in Lauderdale Lakes, offers Broward County youths an opportunity to learn better study skills, prepare for SAT’s, ACT’s as well as GED preparation. PS Youth also helps teens and young adults with career development by offering assistance with resume writing, interview tips, filling out applications and computer classes.
Paula Scott, President of PS Youth Outreach Center, said they are planning a Summer Camp which will also foster educational growth and retention during the summer months as well as incorporate some fun, educational activities. PS Youth’s one-on-one tutoring rate is very low, in comparison to other tutoring and private educational services.
PS Youth Outreach Center, Inc. is a 501(c)3 non-profit organization which serves at-risk youth between the ages of 5-22 who reside in Broward County. The agency was founded in 2006 as a reaction to the numerous youth of Broward County who are under-served or unaware of the many services available.
Education is a privilege which many of our youth become discouraged to follow through with. Whether discouraged by social distractions, familial distractions, or simply a lack of guidance, these youth need to be helped through education.
PS Youth is approved by FDOE and the School Board of Broward County. Call today and learn more! 954-358-0625 or email at info@psyouth.org . Are you able to sponsor a student or have school supplies to donate? Learn more, click here.
Be an educated parent, it can help your child reach their greatest potential.
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